Addictions and How Do They Influence Our Lives

Drug addiction leads to society destruction

“Every form of addiction is bad, no matter whether the narcotic, or alcohol or morphine or idealism C.G.  Yung Pete Rose, the greatest ever baseball hitter, was banned from entering the Hall of Fame because of gambling addiction. There are asterisks next to Barry Bonds’ all time home runs record because of allegations of steroids […]

What’s Better: Being Smart, Intelligent or Wise?

It’s not that I am so smart, it’s just that I stay with problems longer. Albert Einstein Be as smart as you can, but remember that it is always better to be wise than to be smart. Alan Alda A smart man only believes half of which he hears, a wise man knows which half. […]

Living in New York or a Panegyric on My Daughter

If you can make it there… Fred Ebb Heralded as the capital of the world. The biggest port of entry for immigrants to the United States.  I know, forty years ago, I flew to New York on a big Pan Am 747 sitting next to a catholic nun.  It was foggy and we couldn’t land. […]

Let’s Make Showing Respect a Part of Culture Again

Overhead photo of letters or text saying respect and autumn leaves on a wooden tabble

I was traveling recently.  Hertz’s bus from car rental drop off to the terminal was crowded.  I threw the luggage on the rack and stood by. Then I heard,  “Would you like to take my seat?”.  I looked back.  There was a man in his late 30s, may be early 40s, getting up and pointing […]

The Fine Art of Improving History

The much despised political leaders of North Korea are in the news again.  No.2 Jang Song Thaek was recently stripped of power by No.1 Kim Jong-un.  Jang was Kim’s uncle and widely regarded as the younger leader’s mentor. The political move was dramatic and happened in a full view of the entire legislative assembly, when […]

Life Is About the Stories.

Moving to new, different communities involves meeting new friends.  A few months ago we met our neighbor from across the street, we will call him Ernie.  He used to be a car shop owner.  Is also retired, just much more than me.  We visit occasionally and tell stories over a glass of wine and a […]

When Do We Start Getting Old

You don’t stop laughing when you grow old, you grow old when you stop laughing. George Bernard Shaw While in Poland, I had a close friend, Andrzej.  His father was a barber and used to cut my hair.  When I was in the first grade, my friend was in fourth. We used to walk to […]

…And Why Their Parents Don’t

In my previous post, I described scenarios in which young people are leaving the countries of their birth.  Now is the time to contrast the older generation. During my stay in the United States, I was carefully watching the life of my parents in Poland. We sent letters as often as we could.  In the […]

Why Young People are Leaving the Country of Their Parents

Italy: The Nation That crushes Its Young.  (NYT, Oct 30, 2013) Italy Breaks Your Heart.  (NYT, Oct 26, 2013) These two recent articles published in the New York Times captured my attention.  They both comment on the exodus of Italian young people, particularly males, and their travel to France, England and for more lucky ones […]